Valentines Day Past Present and Future

Valentine's Day or Saint Valentine's Day is a holiday celebrated on February 14 by many people throughout the world. In the West, it is the traditional day on which lovers express their love for each other by sending Valentine's cards, presenting flowers, or offering confectionery. The holiday is named after two among the numerous Early Christian martyrs named Valentine. The day became associated with romantic love in the circle of Geoffrey Chaucer in the High Middle Ages, when the tradition of courtly love flourished.

There are many alternative and more stories to that but the love birds don't mind to have one more reason to spend one more day together with some liberty to roam in the favorite places whole day.

I it needs some special day to say what you feel within... I feel the day you speak your heart should be the special one and not a day where you plan to speak your heart. I don't feel things like these have a schedule... or do they have...

I also wonder how politics has found its way in to valentines day... means is this some sort of way to make money for the gift shops, a day to make politics count the most, a day for social dogma to strain out their happenings or what ???

In between all this people find their own sweet time to show love and respect to the relationship they are in is the beauty of the day. I wish you all happy valentines day and if this is the day we are going to have great time together then let everyday be a valentines day....

Life means more than what we think and believe

I cant help sharing this in my blog relationship phoenix. It came to me as a mail and
it touched me ... Life has so much more to bestowe , more than what we can hold, the reason longs the perception....


WHEN A LIZARD CAN, WHY CAN'T WE?

This is a true story that happened in Japan.
In order to renovate the house, someone in Japan breaks open the wall.
Japanese houses normally have a hollow space between the wooden walls.
When tearing down the walls, he found that there was a lizard stuck there
because a nail from outside hammered into one of its feet. He sees this,
feels pity, and at the same time curious, as when he checked the nail,
it was nailed 10 years ago when the house was first built.

What happened?

The lizard has survived in such position for 10 years!!!!!!! !!!

In a dark wall partition for 10 years without moving, it is impossible and
mind-boggling. Then he wondered how this lizard survived for 10 years!!!
Without moving a single step--since its foot was nailed! So he stopped his
work and observed the lizard, what it has been doing, and what and how it
has been eating. Later, not knowing from where it came appears another
lizard, with food in its mouth. Ah! He was stunned and touched deeply.
For the lizard That was stuck by nail, another lizard has been feeding it
for the past 10 years...

Imagine? it has been doing that untiringly for 10 long years, without
giving up hope on its partner.Think, will u do that to your partner?

Imagine what a small creature can do that a creature blessed with a
brilliant mind can't. As information and communication technology
advances, our access to information becomes faster and faster.

But the Distance between human beings . . . is it getting closer as well?
Please never abandon your loved ones Never Say U R Busy When They Really
Need You ... You May Have The Entire World At Your Feet..... But You
Might Be The Only World To Them.... Before you say something just
remember It takes a moment to Break but an entire life to make...

The question is when we have been bestowed with gods greates gift life, why we compromise to merely survive and let go the real happiness of our life and loved ones. I really want to ask this question to all : Why and for whom really are we doing things... dont we know that its our presence and togetherness that counts above all ?