I wonder how we humans come out of the strongest set backs with time... I think the people around you are one of the important factor helping us to heal. The relationships with the individuals are at times comes as a medicine to our relationship wounds.
I remember a lady who was such a successful actress, a television host and a RJ. She was married to one whom she love. A love marriage a successful career and what else she could have thought of... but mishaps does not see that the person its going to hit is at what position or what may be the repercussions .... After sometimes she happen to go through something that she have never thought of in her nightmares. She happened to have a miscarriage... She was totally broken by one blow...
All the people were so concerned about her health, her peace of mind but nothing works when something happens to a mother... she had everyone around but nothing consoled her... Her husband... her friends...her family did whatever best to console her but she could not stand at peace.
After few years of suffering she happen to join a 6 days course class of "Art of Living"... the people she came to interact... the exercise she did... the group activity she performed somehow worked for her... for me one thing that most helped her is the willingness to accept the situation and seeing the people around who too are suffering somehow and are managing to live a life with a smile on their face...
As the preacher of the course said..."Wear the fake smile on your face until you make it..."
Healing rifts is not at all easy untill we are ready to accept the situation...
To me there are few things that can not be fought back... the best way to defeat them is to accept them...
By Amritanshu
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