Realationship- Who choses who

I have been troubled by this question time and again... Do we chose relationship or realtionship choses us... cant say... We happen to bond with some stranger whom we never thought to meet in life and we fail to stand realtionship with people with whom we know for last several years... So what is that makes relationships live...

The part that relationships we are born with are the one we dont have choice with or is it true for all relationship that we human fall in our entire life span... Do we chose with whom we should be hangout or does the relationship has that power of choice...

To stop been in dilemna what I do is accept the realtionship as it is rather than giving it a fight and moulding it as I like it... There are times when we are hapless and there are time when we give a fight back to hold some relations... So exactly who decides is still a question whose answer might come to me someday till then singing the song "Jo Bhi Pyaar Se Mila Hum Usi Ke Ho Liye..."

Relationship-Desination or Journey

It sometimes confuses we humans that what we actually desire for... is the achievement of the desired is the what we actually wished or is it the journey...

Relationship is not what we relish for a single moment rather we reap the ecstasy of been together for a long span... We happen to get in relation with some and failed with others but does that means end for the relationship which the two persons shared before getting into a relationship for a lifetime...

We happen to love but do we marry the same person... Its not have happened for most of the peoples due to various reasons. Some might have fallen in-between for social issues and some for religious and some for misunderstanding and few for finding that two were not perfect for each other...

But is the commitment to the relationship comes only from socially known bondage or is it from soul too...

We feel broken if we fail to marry the person we love but we forget that we have a beautiful memories of all the journey the two has come across in the process...

what i mean to say is that there is a lot more than just achieving...renunciation also works wonder sometimes... try it...