There are times when the blck clouds of confusions and misunderstandings crawl under the skin and make one to take decission that cost them a friend. There are things which we cant express or share, but then you must trust the other friend that there must be some reason behind his/her doings which you need not know at present but that can be shared when the other one is comfortable.
See, what we see and hear are not truth always. There are times when you have to react and say something which we never meant that way. The relationship must be feeded well with time and trust to grow in adverse conditions.
I used to be in love with a girl, she also loved me a lot but one day her parent came to know about our relationship and they asked her to drop the relationship with me. She cried but her parents asked her to chose from them and me. Now how can love be put infront of love to fight. She didint told me about all this and decided to just break my heart so that i forget her. But what i did is just trusted her my only love and knew that what she was doing is not her but some reason or time that she is reacting so. I just talked to her parents but by jove they were so much rigid about their decission. we didnt had talk for months and i tell you, i was in such a pain taht i could have done anything... what i did was just keep making her aware about how i am and i am with her in all decissions and after 1 year 8 months she called and cried that she could not pretend more... and today she is my wife.. i went to their parents again but this time with my parents and it did worked for two of us.
So what if i had reacted in a different way and could have easily break off the relation. It would have me and only me to suffer the agony throughout my life..
What the botton line is just trust your relationship in whichever form you are sharing it and provide some space and time to normalize the happenings.
Trust me you will never regret your decission...
Amritanshu
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