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Wednesday, December 27, 2006
Trust your relation
There are times when the blck clouds of confusions and misunderstandings crawl under the skin and make one to take decission that cost them a friend. There are things which we cant express or share, but then you must trust the other friend that there must be some reason behind his/her doings which you need not know at present but that can be shared when the other one is comfortable.
See, what we see and hear are not truth always. There are times when you have to react and say something which we never meant that way. The relationship must be feeded well with time and trust to grow in adverse conditions.
I used to be in love with a girl, she also loved me a lot but one day her parent came to know about our relationship and they asked her to drop the relationship with me. She cried but her parents asked her to chose from them and me. Now how can love be put infront of love to fight. She didint told me about all this and decided to just break my heart so that i forget her. But what i did is just trusted her my only love and knew that what she was doing is not her but some reason or time that she is reacting so. I just talked to her parents but by jove they were so much rigid about their decission. we didnt had talk for months and i tell you, i was in such a pain taht i could have done anything... what i did was just keep making her aware about how i am and i am with her in all decissions and after 1 year 8 months she called and cried that she could not pretend more... and today she is my wife.. i went to their parents again but this time with my parents and it did worked for two of us.
So what if i had reacted in a different way and could have easily break off the relation. It would have me and only me to suffer the agony throughout my life..
What the botton line is just trust your relationship in whichever form you are sharing it and provide some space and time to normalize the happenings.
Trust me you will never regret your decission...
Amritanshu
Monday, December 18, 2006
Thursday, December 07, 2006
Online Freindship funda
People ask, "How can you be friends
With someone you've never met?"
I tell them,
"You've never been online I bet!"
It's something people offline
Will never understand.
You open up your heart to friendship
With your typing hands.
It's a world full friendship at your finger tips,
There is so much online,
It only takes a heart to reach people
With your touch.
First you start out online, surfing all around.
Next thing you know a great friend will be found.
You will chat a lot and surf cyber space.
Soon it will be your second home,
a comforting, special place.
A friend to share your dreams and your tears
And to help each other wipe away life's fears.
You will share life together
And help each other along
You will make it thru bad weather
Because friendship is so strong.
With someone you've never met?"
I tell them,
"You've never been online I bet!"
It's something people offline
Will never understand.
You open up your heart to friendship
With your typing hands.
It's a world full friendship at your finger tips,
There is so much online,
It only takes a heart to reach people
With your touch.
First you start out online, surfing all around.
Next thing you know a great friend will be found.
You will chat a lot and surf cyber space.
Soon it will be your second home,
a comforting, special place.
A friend to share your dreams and your tears
And to help each other wipe away life's fears.
You will share life together
And help each other along
You will make it thru bad weather
Because friendship is so strong.
One Kiss of Dhoom made the media dance on tune Crazy kiya re
Now this is what i call "Crazy Kiya Re"
I was just confused with the reactions the people of india have made over the scene...
no really the scene between the Hrithik and Aishwarya Rai are one of the most passionate but decent kiss i ever seen. There are many kissing scenes in the bollywood that need a wooo but not at all this cute scene. They are just playing there characters and I dont feel that it was embedded ... it was an obvious act under the scenario...
I think the issue has catch up with the fire due to the personalities involved in the act.... Hi hia ahha haa
I think the Aish and the hrithik fans has some nerve issue and they could not hold that within...
Just clean kissing scene without any tongue contacts... its hard to figure whether its just a pulicity stunt or a really personal fans issue...
Just see it yourself and decide whether the relationship between the characters are more than a play act...
Show me
I was just confused with the reactions the people of india have made over the scene...
no really the scene between the Hrithik and Aishwarya Rai are one of the most passionate but decent kiss i ever seen. There are many kissing scenes in the bollywood that need a wooo but not at all this cute scene. They are just playing there characters and I dont feel that it was embedded ... it was an obvious act under the scenario...
I think the issue has catch up with the fire due to the personalities involved in the act.... Hi hia ahha haa
I think the Aish and the hrithik fans has some nerve issue and they could not hold that within...
Just clean kissing scene without any tongue contacts... its hard to figure whether its just a pulicity stunt or a really personal fans issue...
Just see it yourself and decide whether the relationship between the characters are more than a play act...
Show me
Wednesday, November 29, 2006
Two Different Persona
The two characters have only one thing that apart them and that is the vision. Both have the courage, dedication, caliber, passion strength which are the necessary ingredients to make a purpose into a goal but the vision they have are different. One choses to be the perfect thief whereas the other choses to be the cop to catch the perfect thieves.
I enjoyed the chemistry the two personality shared without been acquainted in real life. The two were so sure about each others move that one might think that how come they be so sure of ones mental behavior.
It is more like one man living two lives. one good and one bad. The relation is whom we let to dominate within us so will be our persona...
I would surely like to be the cop in my real life which is more thrilling then merely working on a pre determined plan of action.
Which role model is yours in real life ?
don't forget to tell me through your comments.
Amritanshu
I enjoyed the chemistry the two personality shared without been acquainted in real life. The two were so sure about each others move that one might think that how come they be so sure of ones mental behavior.
It is more like one man living two lives. one good and one bad. The relation is whom we let to dominate within us so will be our persona...
I would surely like to be the cop in my real life which is more thrilling then merely working on a pre determined plan of action.
Which role model is yours in real life ?
don't forget to tell me through your comments.
Amritanshu
Saturday, November 25, 2006
Anti War Global Orgasm
Isn't that great if love making can end the issues to go for a war. Love is the only thing which will make us different. Its a choicest blessing that god endeavoured on human beings. I just encountered an article cum newsletter at santabanta site and felt that this thing need much bigger platform than the one on which it is standing just now. Happy reading and dont forget to make a comment with what you felt...
We all are sharing a lovely relationship with one another by being someone friends, someone son or daughter, by been a lover or just keeping in touch with the others.
We all are sharing a lovely relationship with one another by being someone friends, someone son or daughter, by been a lover or just keeping in touch with the others.
Remember the flower power generation's slogan from the 1960s: Make Love, Not War? A US-based activist couple wants the world to put that into practice on December 22 as part of an anti-war 'Global Orgasm Project'.Donna Sheehan and her partner Paul Reffel have given a call to all peace-lovers around the world, "especially in countries with weapons of mass destruction", to join the campaign on the winter solstice day "at the time of your choosing, in the place of your choosing and with as much privacy as you choose". And they are serious about it.
The project will "effect (a) positive change in the energy field of the earth through input of the largest possible surge of human energy - a Synchronized Global Orgasm", their website says."We have had several e-mails from India.
We would like very much to have India join with this physical and spiritual event, in the hope that we can all change the energy of the world for the better," the couple informed in a jointly signed mail.Their timing is motivated by the "two more US fleets heading for the Persian Gulf with anti-submarine equipment that can only be for use against Iran"."So the time to change Earth's energy is now!"It will not be the first time that the couple, co-founders of the anti-war organisation Baring Witness, will employ a rather unusual mode of protest.
In the run-up to the US invasion of Iraq in 2002, Sheehan and some of her peace-loving friends stripped naked and spelled "peace" on a Marin County field. As photographs of their protest spread, similar Baring Witness demonstrations were staged in many parts of the world.That campaign, however, could only have a limited number of participants. "The Global Orgasm is a way for even more men and women to be involved in changing the way human affairs are conducted in the world.
"The intent is that the participants concentrate any thoughts during and after orgasm on peace. The orgasmic energy combined with mindful intention may have a much greater effect than previous mass meditations and prayers," reads their mission statement.
"The goal is to add so much concentrated and high-energy positive input into the energy field of the earth that it will reduce the current dangerous levels of aggression and violence throughout the world.
"The duo hopes the energy levels generated by the event will register on the worldwide monitor system of the Global Consciousness Project of Princeton University.
The project will "effect (a) positive change in the energy field of the earth through input of the largest possible surge of human energy - a Synchronized Global Orgasm", their website says."We have had several e-mails from India.
We would like very much to have India join with this physical and spiritual event, in the hope that we can all change the energy of the world for the better," the couple informed in a jointly signed mail.Their timing is motivated by the "two more US fleets heading for the Persian Gulf with anti-submarine equipment that can only be for use against Iran"."So the time to change Earth's energy is now!"It will not be the first time that the couple, co-founders of the anti-war organisation Baring Witness, will employ a rather unusual mode of protest.
In the run-up to the US invasion of Iraq in 2002, Sheehan and some of her peace-loving friends stripped naked and spelled "peace" on a Marin County field. As photographs of their protest spread, similar Baring Witness demonstrations were staged in many parts of the world.That campaign, however, could only have a limited number of participants. "The Global Orgasm is a way for even more men and women to be involved in changing the way human affairs are conducted in the world.
"The intent is that the participants concentrate any thoughts during and after orgasm on peace. The orgasmic energy combined with mindful intention may have a much greater effect than previous mass meditations and prayers," reads their mission statement.
"The goal is to add so much concentrated and high-energy positive input into the energy field of the earth that it will reduce the current dangerous levels of aggression and violence throughout the world.
"The duo hopes the energy levels generated by the event will register on the worldwide monitor system of the Global Consciousness Project of Princeton University.
Now tell me isnt that a great thought...
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Sunday, November 19, 2006
Keep In Touch-It does makes the difference
There are times when we tend to stay away from contact with friends for a long. We think spiritually that the other friend will understand but thinking rationally gives a quite different scenario. Here is what generally happens if the bond of freindhip is not too stretchable and flexible.
Both Friends will think the other is busy and will not contact thinking
it may be disturbing.
As time passes both will think let the other contact. After that each
will think why should I contact first.
Here ur love will be converted to Hate.
Finally without contact the memory becomes weak.
They forget each other.
One fine Day they will meet n blame one another.
So Keep in touch with all your Friends. And just give a small time now to a friend to whom you might e not in contact for a long time... and if he is reading this s/he will give you a call for sure...
Dont loose something which took years to Yield...
Happy Reading...
Amritanshu
Saturday, November 18, 2006
Still a Virgin....
In india the question is not an offense to the dignity anymore. People in here are have started to response positively to such question publicly. The sex education promotion and the promotion for AIDS precaution is a common act in media.
Teenagers in here are fastly adapting the western culture which is appraised as well as criticised, but the teens hardly bother with the comments or compliments thrown to them. In this time its but obvious to loose virginity in teenhood.
Call centers is one place where the indian culture suffers most. Late night services brnig in the proximity to try new things like alcohol,tobacco and sex. There have been a tremendous increase in abortions undertaken by the medical centres in India.
In the run to mordenize onself, one need to drink smoke , visiting disco thecs and bars and need not be virgin is what it all take to make you todays teenage india. They feel proud to follow the trend without giving a damn to the repercussion and the society.
So the but obvious question you are asked in a party is are you still a virgin ???
Saturday, November 11, 2006
Fight For Your Identity...
We tend to compromise time and again with situations and keep losing a part of ourselves in the way... we lose the identity of being ourselves. I dont say catch up any one around and start fighting... you must fight for a reason, fight when your identity is on the stake.
Dont ever give up on the situations as the situations are dynamic and they dont remain the same always...
We all have some commandment of ourselves to live a lire. but we break them ourselves when the situation demands, we compromise and we just ignore the thing that while making the compromise what we have lost is the IDENTITY of ourselves.
If you believe that you are not going to compromise on your identity and fight back teh situation will change, just trust yourself. Be honest to yourself because if you are not honest with yourself then you are the greatest fool... one must never fool himself with wrong self assesment. First assess yourself honestly and see the situation in an unbiased perspective and you will sure find out whether or not the situation need to be fight back or this is what you are capable of...
Dont ever give up on the situations as the situations are dynamic and they dont remain the same always...
We all have some commandment of ourselves to live a lire. but we break them ourselves when the situation demands, we compromise and we just ignore the thing that while making the compromise what we have lost is the IDENTITY of ourselves.
If you believe that you are not going to compromise on your identity and fight back teh situation will change, just trust yourself. Be honest to yourself because if you are not honest with yourself then you are the greatest fool... one must never fool himself with wrong self assesment. First assess yourself honestly and see the situation in an unbiased perspective and you will sure find out whether or not the situation need to be fight back or this is what you are capable of...
Just be yourself and you will never be in despair...
Tuesday, November 07, 2006
Do We Proudly Call Us Human...
We are just human by appearance, but by nature we have crossed the miles... We don't hesitate a little just to satisfy the greed, irrespective of the relationship required to be murdered... We have left our humanity somewhere down the evolution phase and what we are now is certainly not human... There is so much terrorism in this world, and what for ??? Selfish motive and greed to rule. We show our power by taking lives, by humiliating and abusing the humanity within...
Relationship like friendship, love and humanity does not exists in real world... Where are these gone... They now exists in books only...
Reaction is not the solution... We must act now or there will be no tomorrow to humanity...
We will write our own doom...
Relationship like friendship, love and humanity does not exists in real world... Where are these gone... They now exists in books only...
Reaction is not the solution... We must act now or there will be no tomorrow to humanity...
We will write our own doom...
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Sunday, November 05, 2006
Sealing in Delhi: A road to nowhere...
I just can not figure out that why the govt. is getting so rude on the peoples in delhi. If the fault is of both the govt. employed MCD officials and the peoples then why is that so that the only sufferers are the peoples.
I don't deny the fact that the peoples were selfish and greedy in buying and constructing at illegal land. This illegal possession was not checked at the time of construction and now just to make delhi more beautiful demolishing the illegal construction is how far justifiable... Its just not the structure ... its the relationship they are demolishing....
At this stage of life, where most of the merchants and the shop owners have spent 15- 20 years in that same illegal property then the govt should either legalize the construction and be careful now onwards ... but making them helpless and unemployed at the stage from where they can not start over again is totally inhumane and not justified...
I just wonder what tomorrow has withhold when the sealing starts again by the order of supreme court... rebel is must... and politics will warm its hand over the issue...
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-Amritanshu
I don't deny the fact that the peoples were selfish and greedy in buying and constructing at illegal land. This illegal possession was not checked at the time of construction and now just to make delhi more beautiful demolishing the illegal construction is how far justifiable... Its just not the structure ... its the relationship they are demolishing....
At this stage of life, where most of the merchants and the shop owners have spent 15- 20 years in that same illegal property then the govt should either legalize the construction and be careful now onwards ... but making them helpless and unemployed at the stage from where they can not start over again is totally inhumane and not justified...
I just wonder what tomorrow has withhold when the sealing starts again by the order of supreme court... rebel is must... and politics will warm its hand over the issue...
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-Amritanshu
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Monday, October 30, 2006
Speak at the right time...
I was in class 8th when i acknowledged that how important it is to speak at the right time. Once you lost the time where you should have to say something and you hesitated cuz of whatever the reason then it will haunt you everytime that event comes to your mind.
There are some consultants to guide you with the right direction... what do you think sometimes need to verbalised or else at the back of the mind it will always haunt you...
Friends are sometimes more closer to you and can guide you in a more better way...
mujhse dosti karoge....
There are some consultants to guide you with the right direction... what do you think sometimes need to verbalised or else at the back of the mind it will always haunt you...
Friends are sometimes more closer to you and can guide you in a more better way...
mujhse dosti karoge....
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Friday, October 13, 2006
Dengue Time: Action Time.... PAPAYA JUICE
Dear All,
I would like to share this interesting discovery from a classmate's son who has just recovered from dengue fever. Apparently, his son was in the critical stage at the SJMC ICU when his pallet counts drops to 15 after 15 litres of blood transfusion.
His father was so worried that he seeks another friend’s recommendation and his son was saved. He confessed to me that he give his son raw juice of the papaya leaves. From a pallet count of 45 after 20 litres of blood transfusion, and after drinking the raw papaya leaf juice, his pallet count jumps instantly to 135.
Even the doctors and nurses were surprised. After the second day he was discharged. So he ask me to pass this good news around. Accordingly it is raw papaya leaves, 2 pcs just cleaned and pound and squeeze with filter cloth.
You will only get one tablespoon per leaf. So two tablespoon per serving once a day. Do not boil or cook or rinse with hot water, it will loose its strength. Only the leafy part and no stem or sap. It is very bitter and you have to swallow it like Won Low Kat. But it works.
Papaya Juice - Cure for Dengue You may have heard this elsewhere but if not I am glad to inform you that papaya juice is a natural cure for dengue fever. As dengue fever is rampant now, I think it's good to share this with all.
A friend of mine had dengue last year. It was a very serious situation for her as her platelet count had dropped to 28,000 after 3 days in hospital and water has started to fill up her lung. She had difficulty in breathing. She was only 32-year old.
Doctor says there's no cure for dengue. We just have to wait for her body immune system to build up resistance against dengue and fight its own battle. She already had 2 blood transfusion and all of us were praying very hard as her platelet continued to drop since the first day she was admitted.
Fortunately her mother-in-law heard that papaya juice would help to reduce the fever and got some papaya leaves, pounded them and squeeze the juice out for her. The next day, her platelet count started to increase, her fever subside. W
e continued to feed her with papaya juice and she recovered after 3 days!!!
Amazing but it's true.
It's believed one's body would be overheated when one is down with dengue and that also caused the patient to have fever. Papaya juice has cooling effect. Thus, it helps to reduce the heatiness in one's body, thus the fever will go away. I found that it’s also good when one is having sore throat or suffering from heatiness.
Source:...
Dr Sumedha Bajaj
Bombay Hospital 12,
Marine Lines,
Mumbai - 400 020, India.
022-2067676 • Fax No. 2080871
Dear All,
I would like to share this interesting discovery from a classmate's son who has just recovered from dengue fever. Apparently, his son was in the critical stage at the SJMC ICU when his pallet counts drops to 15 after 15 litres of blood transfusion.
His father was so worried that he seeks another friend’s recommendation and his son was saved. He confessed to me that he give his son raw juice of the papaya leaves. From a pallet count of 45 after 20 litres of blood transfusion, and after drinking the raw papaya leaf juice, his pallet count jumps instantly to 135.
Even the doctors and nurses were surprised. After the second day he was discharged. So he ask me to pass this good news around. Accordingly it is raw papaya leaves, 2 pcs just cleaned and pound and squeeze with filter cloth.
You will only get one tablespoon per leaf. So two tablespoon per serving once a day. Do not boil or cook or rinse with hot water, it will loose its strength. Only the leafy part and no stem or sap. It is very bitter and you have to swallow it like Won Low Kat. But it works.
Papaya Juice - Cure for Dengue You may have heard this elsewhere but if not I am glad to inform you that papaya juice is a natural cure for dengue fever. As dengue fever is rampant now, I think it's good to share this with all.
A friend of mine had dengue last year. It was a very serious situation for her as her platelet count had dropped to 28,000 after 3 days in hospital and water has started to fill up her lung. She had difficulty in breathing. She was only 32-year old.
Doctor says there's no cure for dengue. We just have to wait for her body immune system to build up resistance against dengue and fight its own battle. She already had 2 blood transfusion and all of us were praying very hard as her platelet continued to drop since the first day she was admitted.
Fortunately her mother-in-law heard that papaya juice would help to reduce the fever and got some papaya leaves, pounded them and squeeze the juice out for her. The next day, her platelet count started to increase, her fever subside. W
e continued to feed her with papaya juice and she recovered after 3 days!!!
Amazing but it's true.
It's believed one's body would be overheated when one is down with dengue and that also caused the patient to have fever. Papaya juice has cooling effect. Thus, it helps to reduce the heatiness in one's body, thus the fever will go away. I found that it’s also good when one is having sore throat or suffering from heatiness.
Source:...
Dr Sumedha Bajaj
Bombay Hospital 12,
Marine Lines,
Mumbai - 400 020, India.
022-2067676 • Fax No. 2080871
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Amritanshu...
Amritanshu...
Take Care....
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Thursday, October 12, 2006
Friendship-Key to happiness
Once there were a sweet realtionship between the two completely different species... A hippo and a dog... they use to spend all time together fighting loving caring each other...
here are few of the videos that will make you to laugh to death.... ha hah hahhah ahahhahhahh...
Just see them for yourself.... ha h hahh ah haha
See the farting technique... ha ha hah hahhaahaaa....
Now see them dancing and singing .... ha hah ah hahha
Now all those belly males .... you have here something to get inspired from...
Brought to you by Amritanshu
Wednesday, October 11, 2006
Monday, October 09, 2006
Guys a must see clip to giggle all the day....
IIT Delhi guys video of omkara song Beedi jala le
Presenteed by Amritanshu
IIT Delhi guys video of omkara song Beedi jala le
Presenteed by Amritanshu
Thursday, August 24, 2006
Missing Friends
There are times when you stop seeing reasons to your work... you do what you wish without giving a damn about the repercussion it may entail... but why do we do so... Hnhhh.... if I would be knowing that why should I have been writing this blog at office hours....
Its just that we all need some break... kit kat break... from all the things that we are doing in a disciplined way from a long time...
Missing friends....
Thursday, July 06, 2006
There are times when heart denies to accept the brains decision. To be frank this happens with me time and again.
There are relationship bonds that arise this fight and left us in dilemma...
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